When you lose a beloved animal companion, celebrate his life by holding a memorial service. Here's everything you need to know about In Memoriam For Dog.
In Memoriam: A Way to Remember
Losing a pet can be just as painful as losing a family member or dear friend. Grieving is a difficult, yet necessary, process, and often you can help the process along by participating in or planning a memorial service.
Many people say that funerals aren't really for the one who has passed on, but more for the ones who are left behind. When you're feeling the empty space left by your furry friend, it's important to take time to remember and honor that life and how it affected your own.
Some Ideas For Memorial Services
A memorial service can take any form or flavor you want it to. No one says it has to be a solemn affair in a grassy pet cemetery. Maybe your dog loved to run along the beach, snapping at the waves that rushed in around his legs. Or maybe the mountainous hiking trails near your home were a refuge for both of you. Plan a service in a location that is special to you and your pet.
While you may want to invite some close friends and family members, or prepare something to say about your pooch, it's not required. In fact, your service might be completely private, just you by yourself at the top of the hill, sitting and thinking about your favorite moments with your companion. Some people are able to express their deep inner feelings through writing, poetry, art, music, or film.
The bottom line is, any type of service you decide to have should reflect your own style and desires, and pay respects to the relationship you enjoyed with your canine companion in your own individual way. The point is not to put on a show, but to allow yourself to feel the emotions that are natural when you lose someone you love. By allowing yourself to feel them, either privately or with people you trust, you will be a few steps farther down the road of recovery.
You may be overwhelmed with sadness now that your pet is gone. But with time, the memories won't be so painful, and you'll find yourself thinking more and more of the good times you shared together.
